New to the servers

Hello! I use to play this game about 6/7 years ago and I can clearly see things have changed since then. I came to see what server I should join that would have helpful people for leveling up and some FRIENDLY pvp action later down the road. i dont want to invest all my time and energy into a dead, bot filled server.

Also ANY pointers are new for a returning veteran that hasn't played in forever and barely remembers any of this.

Thanks!