Would like some help from people with experience

Hello to any one who reads this i'm a new comer (sorta) the last time i was playing was when the game was gracia so now am making a fresh new start in GoD and i'd like some help first problem is that I'd like to play a spoiler my main joy of lineage 2 was making adena and still is but i keep reading that spoilers are pointless to play now and i have used the search function it's how i kept reading on the posts on spoilers in GoD so i would really like some insight or help with this if it's true or if am wasting my time or if it still works and spoiling isn't as bad as I've read hopefully someone could shed some light on that secondly what I'd like to know is which server is the best to join because it's been a while and am confused I'd like a server with nice people and nice clans to try and join hopefully someone will help me out thank you in advance and i apologize for any inconvenience